Moving
I wonder if we have an instinct in us that compels us, at moments, to move home. When we feel circumstances elsewhere are better than circumstances where we are, it is not uncommon to feel an urge to go to a better place in search of the gold-paved streets, the mystical greener grass on the other side of the fence, the untapped potential of that place, just over there, that is new, unknown, unexplored; but it that an intellectual urge, or something deeper, something from far before that our brains has not forgotten. Maybe it came from neolithic ancestors who moved as their ambulatory, agricultural lives demanded — hunting for pastures, for a place to in which to perpetuate themselves; or maybe it became preferential, biologically, to move away from the birthing places, drawing on a larger gene pool when the time came to switch from being a child to a parent. Whatever the reasons, there is an urge.
There is an urge within me, and I’m not sure where it came from; but I do feel compelled, very frequently, to pack up and relocate, making a nest somewhere I’ve not been before, starting again the process (the very rewarding process) of discovering things anew that inevitably initiates when we find ourselves in new places. I find this periodic moving essential, and become edgy, uncomfortable, when I feel roots are setting too deeply in a single apartment or room or hostel. Sharks swim to keep themselves alive, swimming not to predate, but to ensure that they are able to continue swimming, the next day, and the next, and every day after; moving so that they may exist.
It is doubtful that sharks or other animals enjoy it in and of itself — they do it because it is what they know they need to do; but I wonder if animals like sharks, so much in flux, are comfortable with the topography of their lives, with the rhythms of the todays and the uncertainties of the tomorrows. I would like to ask one, one day.
I don’t like the practical end of moving — scanners and books and cameras are heavy; rolls of films don’t like x-rays; clutter, by definition, is hard to pack — and the thought of it is often enough to stop me thinking about actually acting on any particular urge to move I have; but the urge usually remains, and I do frequently find myself going between places (most recently from Xi’an to Hanzhong) with bags and boxes containing “my life” in tow, and when that happens I inevitably end up contemplating the whole strange process, as I am now, writing this.
Douglas Coupland actually has a name for this syndrome, terminal wanderlust.